How To Be Confident-For Students
HOW TO BE CONFIDENT
INTRODUCTION-
If you are a student and reading my article “how to be confident” this time. I know what you are going through after completing your school.
You were too busy in studying, doing homework and you were just too busy in engaging your time till 7th and 8th period.
Every time you just think that how could I get score well. Your school has well prepared you for your future. Some of you will be studious and introvert.
ABOUT YOU-
Now, what are you thinking? I am sure you already have mentally prepared that what you want to do ahead after schooling.
Some of you have already joined any reputed course. Some of you are still taking stress about it.
If you have completed your schooling or just now you are in another college, whatever you are doing, the atmosphere you are watching and observing completely different from your school.
What you are struggling with here? first of all, you are observing yourself and your seniors too.
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WANT TO DO-
Now, what are you thinking about yourself? feeling low confidence, observing your communication skills, thinking about your personality development and many more things which you are comparing with others and feeling low.
If you are alone or don’t have any friends there, then definitely you are struggling too much. Many questions are arising in your mind that how to believe, to whom I trust, who is good and who is bad, how to say for help. What will be the consequence and so on…
FOCUS ON-
But the main thing, I would like to say, you should not distract from your goal. Yes, it’s true you get any chance or opportunity to improve yourself. You learn a lot from others. Which you do not think about in school.
Most of the reader students are thinking about improving their confidence. Because at this time, when they see to interact with unknown people.
It is the time they are opening up and improving their personality from each angle. One of the major things to work out on building confidence.
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NEEDS FOR-
It is very necessary to develop, confidence. If you don’t have one, then you feel uncomfortable, inferior, less important about yourself, which can pull you back from reaching the goal, no matter how studious you are.
“How to be confident” article is giving you some tips which will help you to boost your confidence.
You have to be aware of yourself, either you are confident or arrogant, there is a fine line between the two.
I will not only talk about the internal way but the external way too. Which will help to improve not only boosting confidence but also develop your personality.
Some points you may have already developed, so try to focus on those points which you want to work out.
You know very well, for improving one’s personality the role of your home, school/college, your friend circle, people you are in touch with, the environment you see, matters a lot for improving your personality.
At your age, you learn a lot from your friend circle. So let’s start with some important general tips-
WAY OF TALKING-
You should focus on your way of talking. It really feels and touches a lot to others. If you talk impressively.
You should check on the pitch and tone of your voice for making your talk impressively.
HAVE SOME BASIC MANNER-
If you have improved your way of talking or you are just making work on this. Then you must include manners in your talking.
Please, Thank you, Sorry these are basic words which everybody should include in their conversation.
MODESTY IN BEHAVIOUR-
Along with manners, you should try to speak politely. I already have focused on the pitch and tone of voice in this article.
if you are talking mannerly but your tone and pitch of voice are not matching on that, It will look awkward and funny. So just match your pitch and tone in talking.
If you are adding modesty in talking, check out the speed of your tone. It should not be speedy and not be very slow.
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FOCUS ON YOUR CONTENT-
What you are trying to deliver to your company. I have seen some people, who tell their main content very late while talking, it can make you so boring and more likely you will have fewer friends. Ultimately you have to make your talking very impressive.
KEEP UPDATED-
You should always in touch with news national and international. You should be good in your General Knowledge along with your study.
Well, these Current Affairs and Static General Knowledge are very good points to talk about and discuss. People will love your company. Ultimately you will gain confidence subconsciously.
Making you aware of news will lead to any healthy discussion and you will not fall for the bad company in your college.
You will learn a lot in this if you listen to other’s points of view, It will make you cooperative, tolerant, helpful. Moreover, it will help you to face any kind of interview.
You have to be aware of yourself, either you are confident or arrogant, there is a fine line between the two.
THINK POSITIVE-
A positive thinker always attracts all. You might have observed your teachers in school. If they always motivated you, talked with you in a positive way and your stress went away within a second. You loved that.
They can’t let you feel depressed. Similarly, if a new person began to know you and finds you positive, motivating, he/she will definitely like your company.
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BODY LANGUAGE-
“how to be confident” article focuses on body language. You should be aware of your body language. Your facial expressions, eye contact, your posture while standing, sitting and talking.
Everything is included while you are working on boosting your confidence. Try to make eye contact while talking to someone.
But it should be in this way that it should not be looking like staring at someone. Your eyes should blink naturally not more not less.
Your backbone should straight while sitting and standing, bending the backbone does not seem good. A little smile should be on your face when you see your known ones.
If you are sitting in a chair then your hands should be on the arms of the chair and your legs should not be overlapped.
The way of walking also plays a vital role in personality development. Some people bend down their heads while walking. It doesn’t suit anyone.
TALKING WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE-
While talking with multiple people, you should concentrate on all the people equally. Sometimes this situation can come, so it is suggested that you should be well aware of your self and your activities too.
Generally, what we do, we just see and watch other’s activities, not for ours, it can be a huge hurdle for the way of growing ourselves.
FOCUS ON LANGUAGE-
Today, there is a huge demand for the English language if you are good at this language then it’s good but otherwise, you should improve this by learning more vocabulary, basic grammar, writing, listening, speaking.
If You will be demandable in everywhere, in every field. That will boost your confidence automatically.
STICK WITH LEARNING PROCESS-
You know very well, one can learn a lifetime. If you will always learn either from your mistake or from the goodness of others. It will help you to grow your personality.
DRESS SENSE-
“how to be confident” blog tells that dressing sense also counts more but less than above all mentioned points, depending on the person’s opinion.
Because if your way of talking is not good, you are not able to speak well, if you don’t have good and positive thinking, your General Knowledge is poor, even you don’t have the knowledge of your surroundings and you are not the updating person in today’s modern age, then I don’t think so you will be able to put you in good list.
Especially where you are meeting with new people daily, according to me, whatever you wear but your smart dress counts a lot after improving the above-mentioned points, else you can share your thought in comment sections.
If you are a teenager or just completed your schooling. So these above methods are sufficient to boost your confidence. Because if the person is in demandable mode, automatically all the things which required to boost confidence, will come naturally.
CONCLUSION-
I hope this article “how to be confident” will help you a lot to boost your confidence. I just have given you basic and general tips for the teenager, who just have completed their schooling. In the next article, a will share some more deep methods to boost your confidence.
Thank You…
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